Please indicate in the space what the betrayal briefly was e.g., dishonesty, disloyalty, failure to offer assistance, harmful disclosure of information, infidelity.
Dishonesty failure to assist harmful disclosure
Dishonesty - promised somethign at work which did not come true
Betrayed my trust. I confided something in them and they told other people. This happened many years ago, but I found this really distressing at the time as they were a close (my best) friend.
loss of friendship for no reason sudden breakup of relationship with no warning via text
Partner left me for someone else. It was shocking and unexpected.
Dishonesty, disloyalty and harmful disclosure of information. I'm a teacher and I confided in a colleague I've been working with for 2 years now about a serious issue. We've both signed the same "duty of confidentiality" contract, and I certain I could trust her, since I've helped her a lot in the past. So I asked for her advice & guidance in a serious matter of which I unsure how to pursue. At the time she was more than willing to assist me and assured me that everything would be "between 4 eyes". After some decent advice I handled the situation professionally, and went to my superiors. The very next day I got hassled & shunned by several colleagues I considered friends, because she had spread huge rumors and leaked our private conversation. My once respected image at the school was now in the gutter, because I was an untrustworthy snake that wouldn't hesitate to get people in trouble by running to our superiors. Fast forward a few days, and people came to realize what she did. Several people apologized to me and ensured that this would never happen again. About a month later she quit and found a new job, because we realized what kind of a person she was. Even though everything got sorted my image was still badly hurt, and a handful of people still avoid me. Now I have issues confiding in people, and keep everything to myself. Maybe it'll turn around one day, but for the time being I feel that I can't relay on my colleagues.
I loved him and he acted as if he loves me too but then he claimed that he's actually straight and homophobic, he feels disgust to me and wants no more to know me. Some months later I found his fresh profile on a gay dating page.
False allegations of domestic violence and drug addiction
Partner broke up with me claiming feelings were not real. Dishonest representation of our relationship.
Dishonesty & disloyalty by an ex-partner and friendship group following relationship breakdown
Someone I had regular contact with on a daily basis, suddenly vanishing without a trace. Pretending I did not exist. Made me question my own self worth. I felt betrayed by the act, not the person.
Severe Dishonesty & theft from a brother that recently came into our lives
My ex, the mother of my son, hid her intentions to end ours, and start a relationship, basically, becuase she was rinsing me. She slowly cut me off from my social group and beind my back, painted a story of me being some kind of awful controller.
3 affairs during the marriage, and 1 more affair disclosed after separation
Friendship fell apart as I discovered she had lied to me to borrow money (final straw, had lied about many things prior) and a few months later my home was smashed into by police as she had falsely accused me of rape.
Disclosure of harmful information: At the time of the event a friend of mine attempted to blackmail me into offering him a position of trust. If I did not do this, he threatened to release confidential information about me shared with him in confidence at an earlier date. Ultimately, he released the information anyway and broke my trust.
A married friend tried to seduce another a married friend of mine. Lied to me about it. So infidelity (I guess), dishonesty