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Attachment, perceived partner phubbing, and retaliation: A daily diary study

Attachment, perceived partner phubbing, and retaliation: A daily diary study
Attachment, perceived partner phubbing, and retaliation: A daily diary study
Objective: We conducted a diary study to investigate the role of adult attachment on responses to daily perceived partner phubbing in a sample of couple members (N=196). Method: We focused on personal and relational well-being as well as reactions to phubbing, retaliation reports and motives as outcomes. Results: Results showed that on days when participants perceived their partner as phubbing them more, participants higher in attachment anxiety reported higher depressed mood and lower self-esteem, however their relationship satisfaction was not impacted. In response to partner phubbing, participants higher in attachment anxiety reported more resentment, curiosity, and retaliation in response to phubbing. When retaliating to phubbing, those higher in attachment anxiety did so to seek support and approval from others, whereas those higher in attachment avoidance did so to gain approval from others. Conclusions: Our findings contribute to the understanding of how adult attachment patterns influence people’s responses to partners’ phubbing and well-being.
phubbing, attachment, relationship satisfaction, daily diary, retaliation
0022-3506
Carnelley, Kathy
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Hart, Claire
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Vowels, Laura
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Thomas, Tessa T.
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Carnelley, Kathy
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Carnelley, Kathy, Hart, Claire, Vowels, Laura and Thomas, Tessa T. (2025) Attachment, perceived partner phubbing, and retaliation: A daily diary study. Journal of Personality. (doi:10.1111/jopy.70012).

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Objective: We conducted a diary study to investigate the role of adult attachment on responses to daily perceived partner phubbing in a sample of couple members (N=196). Method: We focused on personal and relational well-being as well as reactions to phubbing, retaliation reports and motives as outcomes. Results: Results showed that on days when participants perceived their partner as phubbing them more, participants higher in attachment anxiety reported higher depressed mood and lower self-esteem, however their relationship satisfaction was not impacted. In response to partner phubbing, participants higher in attachment anxiety reported more resentment, curiosity, and retaliation in response to phubbing. When retaliating to phubbing, those higher in attachment anxiety did so to seek support and approval from others, whereas those higher in attachment avoidance did so to gain approval from others. Conclusions: Our findings contribute to the understanding of how adult attachment patterns influence people’s responses to partners’ phubbing and well-being.

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Accepted/In Press date: 27 July 2025
e-pub ahead of print date: 8 August 2025
Published date: 8 August 2025
Keywords: phubbing, attachment, relationship satisfaction, daily diary, retaliation

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Local EPrints ID: 503719
URI: http://eprints.soton.ac.uk/id/eprint/503719
ISSN: 0022-3506
PURE UUID: fbd81ac2-64bb-474d-9eee-1a276aa72adb
ORCID for Kathy Carnelley: ORCID iD orcid.org/0000-0003-4064-8576
ORCID for Claire Hart: ORCID iD orcid.org/0000-0003-2175-2474

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Date deposited: 11 Aug 2025 16:54
Last modified: 01 Oct 2025 01:40

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Author: Kathy Carnelley ORCID iD
Author: Claire Hart ORCID iD
Author: Laura Vowels
Author: Tessa T. Thomas

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